Well, it happened to me over the weekend, and it felt like a light bulb flashed right above my head. I had a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed–at, it turns out, a time when I needed it the most.
Friday morning, I went to my ah-mazing and long time hairdresser Danai from Maven Beverly Hills for a refresher. My hair had lost its shape, felt tired, the color had grown out, and I was feeling uninspired (With my hair and in general.) We’ve been playing around with my hair color and cut for a while now, but Friday was the day we decided to bring up my honey blonde highlights to the top of my head. (I’m blonde!!)
But something different happened this time. I was just in for a regular hair update–not looking for something drastic. Which reflects how I’ve been feeling recently: a bit blah, a bit stuck and plain ol’ exhausted. When that happens, I have a hard time seeing the light in my work, in my own personal power and in my life. But thanks to a hair refresher, left the salon feeling fresh possibilities around me and that was a great start.
And here’s where things got interesting.
That night I went out to the movies with my fiance, Mike. I wore torn denim, lace up gold heels, an easy tee and a leather jacket–one of my favorite go-to looks. Easy and stylish. I felt great, and I almost forgot I looked different–until I went to the restroom to wash my hands and looked up into the mirror. And there before me was somebody else!
I mean, it was me, but the person looking back was confident, beautiful, powerful, stylish and BLONDE. And then it hit me: This is what people see when they see me. How come I don’t see myself this way? And what if I did start to see myself the way others do?
And, that’s when that lightbulb went off above my head. I looked at my reflection and said to myself, This is me. Own it, girlfriend.
And there you have it. A simple, unexpected, unplanned hair update completely changed my perspective on myself. Turns out I wasn’t owning who I am; I was just gliding through the world instead of acknowledging the unique statement I make in it. I am strong, confident, beautiful and powerful–that’s how people see me. And when I match that perception by looking at myself that way–well, then I’m unstoppable.
Now one big question remains: What good can I do and influence with all this personal power? Stay tuned…